Head and feet: Thailand's body taboos

Two body rules explain much of Thai etiquette. The head is considered the highest and most sacred part of the body: never touch someone's head, not even affectionately ruffling a child's hair, and avoid reaching over people's heads. The feet are the lowest: never point your feet at people, Buddha images, or monks; do not put your feet on tables, chairs, or dashboards; and do not use your foot to move objects or stop a door. When sitting in a temple or on the floor, tuck your feet behind you or to the side. Stepping over people, bags, or food on the ground is also rude - walk around instead. These rules are why Thai people apologize if they must pass between you and something, dipping their head slightly. Visitors who follow them are noticed and appreciated.

Highlights

• Never touch anyone's head, including children
• Never point feet at people or Buddha images
• Don't rest feet on furniture or use feet to move things
• Sit with feet tucked away at temples

Local tips

• In cinemas, taxis, and cafes, keep feet on the floor - propping them up stands out badly
• If you accidentally break a rule, a smile and small apology is enough

Frequently asked questions

Why can't I touch a child's head in Thailand?

The head is considered the most sacred part of the body, so touching it - even affectionately - is disrespectful.

Is putting feet up really a problem?

Yes. Feet are seen as the lowest, dirtiest part of the body, so feet on chairs or tables, or pointing at people, is genuinely offensive.